"…I am sending you to them 18 to open their eyes. I want you to turn them from darkness to light. I want you to turn them from Satan’s power to God. I want their sins to be forgiven. They will be forgiven when they believe in me. They will have their place among God’s people.”
-Acts 26:17-18 

​My son watches everything I do. Not only my actions toward him, but how I raise his sister; how I love his mother and how I act around others. I pray these actions plant seeds of spiritual growth in him. 

​For my prayers to be answered, my life must be directed by the word of God, not by my emotions and self-desires. I say this because any given day I decide to let my spiritual guard down and act out in my own way, the enemy will prop my son up for a front row seat. 

This will present a false way of life as my son will see his daddy acting in ways that are not of God. In order to keep the enemy away from my family, I continue to live my faith out as God intends; submitting to God so the devil will flee.

This way of life is also true for all who are around us. God wants to use you as His vessel. So that when he allows certain people around you, He can bless them through you. He says in the text, “…I am sending you to them…” We often think others are crossing our paths, when God is actually allowing us to cross theirs.

And when He does this, it is an opportunity to show others God in you!
That is a great honor!
I think about it often, the Lord allowing me, despite everything I’ve done in my past, to represent Him!
So, what do you do with that type of representation?

Oh yeah, it’s easy to be a vessel under good circumstances. Like when you say hello to a stranger or allow someone in front of you in a line. But what about showing up and representing Our Father when your path crosses someone angry or someone who doesn’t respond with a kind word or even someone who has hurt you or has caused discomfort in your life?

This is when we must meditate on the scripture when it says, “…sending you to open their eyes…” Your actions, your Christ-like personality will show them something the enemy tries very hard to keep them from seeing every day. But because you are in their presence, God’s presence is there also. His touch, His words are present to transform those He allows to cross your path.

Don’t ever worry about what you will do, God will do all the work. You just have to be present in Jesus name. God wants all his children to have the same chance you have at salvation. That is why He wants you to, “…turn them from darkness to light…from Satan’s power to God…”

God says in His Word that He wants, “…their sins to be forgiven when they believe in Me.” That belief in Him will come to them in how you act, respond and speak.
So live, my friends, with great godly intentions in your actions.

NO MATTER THE ACTIONS OF OTHERS: always respond as Jesus would. Allow your response to be pleasing to God.

And speak to everyone, no matter who they are or how they speak to you, with the intention of spreading the gospel of peace against the chaotic words of the enemy; as he whispers conflict in their ears. 

When you do this, you are allowing God to use you, to transform those He places in your path. So that, “…they will have their place among God’s people.”
I pray God’s strength, wisdom and guidance on your journey in Jesus name.

Peace and Blessings,
-Billy

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At the end of the day, I just wanted peace in my life!
I didn't do the "work" just so Billy would stop drinking and lying to me.
I did the "work" for me! I simply needed peace.
I was the one who was frustrated!
I was the one who felt as though I was hanging on by a thread!
I was the one who no one seemed to understand.
Yep! I had enough and the only way I knew to get some relief was to do my "work".
And you know what? I did just that.
Not only did it transform my life but it SAVED my marriage.
WHO KNEW?


I realized for the first time that my life was worth it. I started to believe that God really had something greater for me.  I faced my truth and realized that no one ever taught me how to do "marriage".

No one ever sat me down to explain the position of a wife.  No one ever explained how to get out of the cycles that kept bringing out the worst in me...and my husband!

I just didn't realize that I was doing it all wrong!
Who taught you how to be "married"?

The truth is...most of us don't have a clue. It's not taught in school. Maybe you can learn about it on the streets...like most of us learned about sex. Even though my parents have been married a long time. I still didn't get it there!

It took me a short time to realize that I didn't need Billy to do THIS "work".
I only needed me to SHOW UP!
Yes, I was committed to it and now I am so grateful that I didn't give up too quickly.

Now, you can see the fruit of my "work".
Now, you can see that through this focused intention...my husband did his work!
Today, we share our testimony and proven strategies to living in peace and purpose everyday.

I want you to know that YOU...yep YOU can single-handedly save your marriage. Once you start showing up differently...your spouse will start responding differently.
When this happens, everything in your life starts to change.
Creating this shift in your life, CAN be learned! Remember, marriage is a skill set.

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-Yolanda

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​“But Elisha sent a messenger out to him with a message. “Go and wash yourself seven times in the Jordan River. Then your skin will be restored, and you will be healed of your leprosy.”
-2 Kings 5:10 (NLT)

In the Old Testament there was a man named Naaman.
Naaman was a warrior who had great admiration from the king he served.
But in all his greatness, Naaman had leprosy!
Following advice, he went to meet with a prophet named Elisha. From the prophet, Naaman learned what he had to do to be healed of his condition.

The instructions in the text above are clear and the actions required are simple. But as simple as they are, Naaman became angry and refused to follow the instructions. His claims were that Elisha wouldn’t even come out to see him in person, and that the water in the Jordan River wasn’t suitable enough for him!

Looking at this text I say, “What’s wrong with Naaman? This blessing is right in front of him!”

But how often is the answer, the solution to our healing right in front of us and we choose to refuse. I remember when I weighed 285 pounds. My blood pressure was high and I had ‘sleep apnea’. The doctor’s even said I was boarder line diabetic. I was told, what not to eat, what not to drink as well as what would benefit me as far as nutrition.

Just like Naaman’s situation, the answers were right in front of me.  I knew! I had the knowledge but what was I willing to do?  Did I listen?

My flesh was strong and I couldn’t give up the foods that were bad for me. I mean when I had a choice between a nice salad versus pork chops in gravy with onions and mushrooms, I couldn’t do the right thing where my health was concerned. I was shortening my life span. I knew what to do, but my wiliness to do it was weak.

In 2 Kings we find that Naaman began to walk away angry until one of his officers stopped him and said, “If you were given instructions to do a ‘great thing’, you would have done it. How much more should you do it when he tells you, ‘Wash and be clean’? ~2 Kings 5:13

Naaman does it and becomes healed.

He understood, and became willing to do what needed to be done. You see, ‘Your blessing is in the middle of what you are willing to do!’ As you read, meditate and live in God’s Word. Be mindful of His instruction and feed your spirit so that you are willing to do what God has instructed you to do.

When you know WHAT TO DO, what are you WILLING TO DO?

You have the power to change your life! May God continue to bless you with His strength and wisdom on your journey.

Peace and Blessings,
-Billy

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“All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. 4 He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us.”
~2 Corinthians 1:3-4 (NLT)
I used to run long-distance.
There were a few times that I enjoyed a good run; especially in unfamiliar places where the scenery was new.
But honestly, I never looked forward to the long run on most days. No, it was the ‘comfort’ after the run that motivated me to run.

While running the miles of hills, switching from asphalt to soil, speeding up and slowing down; in my heart and mind I would know that what I was doing would soon come to an end. And at that end I would be able to catch my breath, sit down and give my legs a break. I would be able to enjoy the ‘comfort’ after the run.

In all we have been through as Christians, we should look forward to the ‘comfort’ after our trials. We know this ‘comfort’ will come because the text says, “…God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort.”

We should stop and shout a praise on that text alone!  In fact, this scripture starts off giving praise to God!  We should wake up in the morning and go to bed like that! Giving praise! We do this because we are thankful for what God has done for us in our lives.

Thankful for the ‘comfort’ he has brought us after enduring the trials we’ve gone through. Remembering that comfort allows us to endure through troubled times because we know God loves us and will fight our battles for us.

Often times we let the present troubles and trials take away our memory of these miracles that have happened in our lives. We need to remember; not only for our motivation but for the motivation of those God places in our path.

For example: because I have gone through addiction which put my wife, (and others around me), through troubled times as a result of it; I now have the gift of that knowledge of pain. Because God allowed salvation and the saving of my marriage with His power through a submitted, obedient, praying, standing-in-the-gap wife; I also have the knowledge of forgiveness, mercy and healing.

This is the ‘comfort’ given by God that feels so good! It is this ‘goodness’, this ‘comfort’, that must be shared with those who are presently going through the same struggle we have overcome.

What we have gone through and been brought through, must be used to save another. That way, the text continues, “…we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us.” ~NLT

May God continue to give you strength, wisdom and direction on your journey in Christ name.

Until next time, live in peace!
-Billy & Yolanda

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“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, For they shall be filled.”  ~Matthew 5:6 (NKJV)

From 1990 to 2013 my blood pressure always registered high.
In 1993 I almost missed entry into the Army because of my blood pressure.

When my youngest was born in 2008, the spirit began to speak to my heart about taking better care of myself.

I have always been able to work out and take care of my ‘outside’ appearance, but I had never taken care of myself on the ‘inside’.

For this I had to learn what was good for my body and what was not. What was digestible and healthy; opposed to what would eventually turn toxic inside me.

I had to learn to eat my foods with less salt, without being cooked in pork and grease. All the things that made food taste great to me at the time, had to go.

The bible teaches us in 1 Corinthians 10:23, “…I am allowed to do anything…but not everything is good for you…I am allowed to do anything but not everything is beneficial…” ~NLT

Reading this scripture I realized what may taste good to me may not be good for me. That meant researching what was good for me, regardless of the taste.

Now take this same concept and apply it with God’s Word in your life.  The world would have us live ungodly, think ungodly and act ungodly.  The ingredients are in us to lie and deceive.  The ingredients are in us to be selfish and abusive.

Our appetite for anger, sexual sins, impure acts and wild living is strong. Our palate is marinated with the juices of hatred, fighting, and jealousy. These inner traits will become toxic in us and lead us into certain death.

But if we prepare for ourselves a ‘New Taste’, we can allow ourselves a new hunger. No matter what the world has shown us, we begin to seek what is good. James 1:17 says, “Every good and perfect gift is from God.” ~NIRV 

We begin to seek the good in God’s Word.

The Word can teach us to become kind and forgiving. To love, have joy in our hearts and find peace during our struggles.

As we grow in God’s Word, we begin to hunger for more of God’s love. And when we thirst for Him, He will fill us.

This new healthy intake feeds our spirit. And when the Spirit within us grows strong, it will help us fight the desires of the flesh. 

Righteousness is digestible in the temple God created for us. It is the fruit that allows us life. Prepare your taste for what is good.

What is good comes from God!

May God continue to give you strength, wisdom and direction on your journey in Christ name.
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​“Therefore, since we have been made right in God’s sight by faith, we have peace with God because of what Jesus Christ our Lord had done for us. 2 Because of our faith Christ has brought us into this place of undeserved privilege where we now stand, and we confidently and joyfully look forward to sharing God’s glory.”
-Romans 5:1-2 NLT
Often times we wake up in the morning and our problems slap us in the face.

No good morning, no hot coffee, just a ‘slap’ in the face.

The world has taught us to accept its ways. In this acceptance we not only tell ourselves , “…this is the way life is…”, we tell others the same thing.

We say, “…Grow up! Stop complaining this is the way the world is!”

But we never stop and think once that God did not create us for this type of unacceptable, depressing lifestyle of settling for the world’s abuse.

Instead God wanted us to have so much more!

In the second part of John 10:10 Jesus tells us He came so that we may have ‘life’ and, “…have it in abundance.” ~HCSB

If we know how God feels about us; if we know what God’s intent is for us; then we would never be depressed. We would cease to be awakened in the morning by the ‘slaps’ of the world’s situations.
The scripture says that by faith we have been made right in God’s sight.

This has been done because of what Christ our Lord has done for us. Because of Jesus we ALL have the authorization to be ‘brought’ into a “…place of undeserved privilege…” 

When we KNOW all of this to be God’s Word, we will NEVER fall short because of doubt, worry and fear.

We will have strength in God’s gift of faith because we will, “…stand and we confidently and joyfully look forward to sharing God’s glory.”

His promise to us.

God and His promise is the same today as it was yesterday and will be tomorrow.

May God continue to give you strength, wisdom and direction on your journey in Christ name.
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Until next time, live in peace!
-Billy & Yolanda

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​Faith is a gift from God.  

Let us not fool ourselves into thinking that we have the power to create it.  

However God has given us the power to develop it and that can only be fed by staying in His Word.  We are too weak to cultivate our faith on our own because the devil and our flesh are in a constant battle to keep us loyal to the ways of the world.  

But this gift, if cultivated correctly, can be a main source of motivation, uplift and strength needed to endure all that may come our way.  

This scripture in Ephesians 6 talks about putting on the full armor of God.  

But in this devotion we are concentrating on one piece of equipment and that is our Shield of Faith.  

In movies, you see warriors with their swords, helmets and shields in battle.  But what I noticed about the shield is that it is available and ready even during surprising situations. 

For example a soldier, during those times, could be asleep but if he is awakened and found himself in danger, he could quickly grab his shield, swing it around and protect himself from whatever is thrown in his direction. 

But now the shield the soldier possessed would have to be of good material.  

Any old shield would not be able to protect him from many of the weapons that would come his way.  
For example, a wooden shield would do little to protect from flaming arrows. Now, keep that in mind as we continue.

This is what happens to us on a daily basis.  

Church on Sunday has excited us and made us hopeful upon hearing the Good News.  But on Monday things are thrown at us in all different directions and when we are hit by these distractions, these flaming darts.  These darts cause us injuries of distrust; injuries of lost hope; injuries of anger and malice. 

Some of our shields are made out of anger.  Weapons to ignite that anger will be thrown and there is no protection.  

Some of our shields are made out of revenge.  Weapons of a ‘never ending battle’ where the thirst for revenge is never quenched are thrown.  

But when we have our shield of FAITH; we have a shield made of the best material.  

• Faith; a substance so strong that fire will not be able to burn it! 
• Faith; a substance so durable that time won’t be able to weaken it!  
• Faith; the gift from On High; is made to withstand any weapon formed against it! 

No matter the weapon the wicked form and throw, its power will be extinguished under the might of God’s power in the shield formed by your faith.  

Remember God loves you! 

The same way you dress your children accordingly for the cold bitter weather outside on a winter day; God dresses you; provides you with the equipment you need to battle any element.  

Always utilize that equipment; always wear your armor. 

Your gifts from On High! 
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May God continue to give you strength, wisdom and direction on your journey in Christ name.

Until next time, live in peace!
-Billy & Yolanda
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​“He has saved us and called us with a holy calling, not according to our works, but according to His own purpose and grace, which was given to us in Christ Jesus before time began.”
-2 Timothy 1:9 ‭(HCSB)

The marriage Yolanda and I share was not always in this peaceful place we are in today.
In fact, it almost ended!

Between the two of us, we could not make it work. I could not change her and she could not change me. A never ending fight with neither of us bringing a solution or hope to the table.

We were both weary of battle and the end was near.

One or the both of us was destined to quit.

What we didn’t realize was that we really didn’t know each other. We really didn’t know each other because we didn’t really know ourselves and who we were in Christ.

Now I ask you, how could a solution ever come from that?

The answer is it couldn’t.

Not from us.

But God, our Father in heaven, knows us better than we know ourselves. And He knows what is best for us better than we could ever imagine for ourselves.

So just imagine, allowing God to take what He knows about the two of us and making our ‘best’ work its ‘best’ for the kingdom.

Thanks to my wife, that power from God happened in our marriage.

You see when God anoints a marriage; He blesses it with a calling.

Now we were busy arguing and fighting against our own selfishness to see it but one day, Yolanda allowed God in our relationship.

My wife got rid of all her anger, doubt, worry and fear and said, “Come on Lord! Heal my marriage as only you can.” And sure enough God came in through her and that light was so bright it affected me with the same invitation for God to come to me.

I was a little stubborn so the Holy Spirit interceded and allowed God in because of my wife’s submission and her prayers for me.

And through some pain and suffering, our marriage was transformed!

Not by anything we did, but by God’s power, saving grace and mercy.

We were saved!

Despite our selfishness God saved us. And with the transformation, a ministry was born.

Allow God to turn on that purpose in your life and marriage. This purpose was given to you, “…in Christ Jesus before time began.”

We must allow God to guide and show us how to live, love and seed according to His will.

Claim your calling and submit to God today.

It only takes one of you to allow God in to work His miracle; because your purpose has already been set in Jesus name. 

May God continue to give you strength, wisdom and direction on your journey in Christ name.
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Until next time, live in peace!
-Billy

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It was about 2 o’clock in the morning and my husband and I had just had a HUGE argument.

I was sitting downstairs trying to figure out my next steps in ending my marriage. I honestly could not see the light at the end of the tunnel and felt like each argument was causing us to grow further and further apart.

Somehow I stumbled upon a replay from Billy and Yolanda and really only began listening to it because they happened to be praying for broken marriages.

Although I had made up in my mind one of us needed to leave the house, I still believed in the power of prayer something at this time I was unable to do for myself.

The next day I reached out to Live in Peace Ministries to set up a coaching session.

My husband and I were not speaking but I reluctantly asked him if he wanted to talk to this couple.
He was hesitant as I had been but agreed.

Neither of us knew what to expect but we each thought we owed it to each other and our daughter to make this last and final attempt.

Only God knew the incredible impact Billy and Yolanda's Ministry would have on our life.  That first session was so powerful they asked us questions we had not thought about in years.

They did not focus the entire time on what was wrong but just the opposite, they highlighted what was right and where we wanted to see our marriage.

They challenged us to look to God instead of finding the faults in each other.

After that first session there was an immediate difference, the way we spoke to each other, the way we interacted with each other and the way we handled sensitive topics concerning our family.
Billy and Yolanda encouraged us to keep God in the center which was instrumental in tearing down the walls in our marriage.

They prayed with us, gave us scriptures to read and Godly advice to get us through the days ahead.
Their genuine spirits and belief in our marriage and our ability to turn things around gave us the strength and encouragement we needed to push through as a couple.

It’s been almost 6 months since the first session and our marriage continues to get stronger.
We have invested in our marriage by taking many of the courses offered to keep us focused on improving our marriage.

Having Billy and Yolanda pour into our lives and being obedient to God’s plan for their lives has restored hope and the love we once had for each other.

They have truly been a blessing to us individually and as a married couple.
-David and Dyneco Gibson, Coatesville, PA

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Live wisely among those who are not believers, and make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone.
-Colossians 4:5-6‬ ‭(NLT)
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When I became a Christian there was no doubt in my mind for the love I have for the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit.
The unsettling feeling came when I had to defend my belief with nonbelievers.

I know my love...but in order for me to defend my love I had to know Jesus Christ for myself.

Here is an example: I love my wife. I know my wife very well because we live together, we talk daily and we discuss and plan our lives when it comes to finances, home, work and our family.
In other words my wife and I have a lot of interaction and connection.

When it came to my love for Christ, I found that early in my journey in Christ, I didn’t have this same interaction and relationship.

You see we live so long in the flesh that we can still be used to doing fleshly things.  Our spiritual selves need to strengthen and allow our spiritual interaction to grow; just as our relationship with our love ones. Here are a few scriptures that allowed my time with Jesus Christ to increase and my relationship with Him to grow:

• John 1:1 “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” ~HCSB

• John 14:6 “Jesus told him, “I am the Way the Truth, and the Life. No one can come to the Father except through Me.” ~NLT

• John 17:20-21 “I am praying not only for these disciples but also for all who will ever believe in Me through their message. 21 I pray that they will all be one, just as you and I are one—as you are in me, Father, and I am in you. And may they be in Us so that the world will believe you sent me.” ~NLT

These scriptures are three of many that set the foundation in my relationship with Christ.
John 1:1 tells who Jesus is.

John 14:6 tells not only who He is, but also the direction of His sacrifice.

And John 17:20 speaks of His prayer for us as believers in our testimony of Him through our trials.

These scriptures, among many others, equip you with the wisdom and set you up for God’s revelation for you lives.  As you are asked about the hope that is within you concerning your faith and beliefs; speak on them in peace and love as Christ did in the scriptures.

This will allow God to nourish the seeds He plants in those in your path through your testimony.
We should never be hesitant to share God’s wisdom of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit to those that question us.

We don’t know God’s intent for those He has placed in our path, but we must pray that they are there to receive what God has for them through us as He had intended.

May God bless you and keep you safe and covered on your journey in Christ.
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Until next time, live in peace!
-Billy & Yolanda

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